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A phone for an older relative: what actually matters

Buying a phone for a parent or grandparent tends to go one of two ways: a simplified "senior" handset that turns out to be limiting, or a hand-me-down flagship that is never properly set up. A little thought about what they will actually do with it leads somewhere better.

Two kinds of user

Calls, texts and not much else. A simple feature phone with physical buttons, loud speaker and an emergency button — the Doro range is the best known — can be exactly right, especially for someone who finds touchscreens frustrating. Pair it with the cheapest pay-as-you-go bundle or a small rolling plan.

Video calls with family, photos, WhatsApp, maybe a bit of browsing. This is most people, and a mainstream smartphone is the better tool. What they need is not a special phone but a bigger screen, a good speaker, long battery life and a careful setup. A mid-range Samsung, Motorola or an older iPhone fits well; the same phone as their nearest relative makes remote help far easier.

Setup that makes the difference

  1. Turn up the text size and display zoom, and switch on bold text.
  2. Put the few apps they use on the home screen and remove everything else. Fewer icons, less confusion.
  3. Set up favourites and photo contacts so calling family is one tap on a face.
  4. Enable hearing-aid compatibility and call captioning if relevant; both platforms support them.
  5. Emergency SOS and medical ID — set them up and show how they work.
  6. Remote help. Screen sharing during a video call, or the platform's family features, let you fix things without a visit.

The plan

Data use will be tiny unless they watch a lot of video away from Wi-Fi. A small rolling SIM-only plan or a pay-as-you-go bundle with a spend cap is usually right, and a network with a good indoor signal at their home matters more than price. Ask neighbours what works, or check coverage maps for the address. Then compare SIM-only plans on that network.